Are you fiercely competitive? In ancient times, there wasn't much choice in the matter. If you didn't compete for food, shelter, or companionship, you would die. Fortunately, things aren't quite as intense today, but we still compete in various aspects of our lives.
We continue to live in a world in which competition is highly valued and where achievement is often tied to self-esteem or personal value. Here are a few reasons why your competitive spirit might be a good thing, when it could get you into trouble, and some ways to use your drive more productively.
The Positive Aspects of a Competitive Spirit
It's a fallacy to believe that we all live a world where everyone is going to get a participation trophy just for showing up. Success is valued in our society whether we like it or not and competition is one of the best ways to drive success.
When we have competition, it pushes us to grow and even advance as a civilization. It can be argued that man might never have stepped on the moon if we were not in a race to beat the Russians for the prize. If viewed in the correct light, we can actually learn from the setbacks that occur when we're competing with others. These are some of the most positive aspects of competition.